10 ways to flirt with a guy on the phone

  

By: Gossip Queen

Believe it or not, guys love to talk about themselves too, but most of the time we are too busy to notice. Encourage him to talk about himself – his past, present and future! Once he finds a friend in you, things can fast change into luurrvvvee.

1. Take a breather: Do you know he can hear your nervousness on the phone? He can hear your quivering voice and mousey grunts; and take it from us, it’s far from a turn on. So take a deep breath before talking to your guy and try to unwind. Sound all breezy, casual of course, happy!

2. Encourage him to talk about himself: Believe it or not, guys love to talk about themselves too, but most of the time we are too busy to notice. Encourage him to talk about himself – his past, present and future! Once he finds a friend in you, things can fast change into luurrvvvee.

3. Compliment him: Keep complimenting him but do not flatter. Tell him how you find his voice sexy or how his talks make you smile. Make him feel that he is a beautiful being and see him go marshmallow soft for you.

4. Take his name: Say his name while talking to him. Instead of using pronouns, use proper nouns. It will personalise your conversation. Calling him by his name will make things more intimate. Do remember to not start purring while taking his name, because that just makes it gross.

5. Get naughty: After you know he likes you and you want to take the relationship to the next level, start getting naughty. When he calls you and asks what you are doing, reply naughty things like “just out of the shower” or “trying out my new clothes”. To put it simply, tempt him!

6. Talk about your body: Enough of playing the good girl. It’s time you bring the bad girl out and drop in parts of your body in the conversation. While talking to him say something like “the workout has made my butt super firm” or “my friend said I have pouty lips”. He is sure to check out your butt and lips the next time you two meet and probably comment too. Tee Hee

7. Be mysterious: Don’t bother explaining everything. If you have blurted out something you shouldn’t have out of sheer nervousness, just ignore it and pretend everything is fine. Let a slip of the tongue not hamper your equation with the guy. Don’t open up about your life immediately. Take your time and divulge secrets slowly. Keep the mystery alive and watch things play out perfectly!

8. Q & A: While talking on the phone, both of you are bound to ask each other questions. Don’t start with questions like, how many kids do you want or when do you plan to get married. A commitment phobic guy will probably change his number after that conversation and you will never hear from him again. Plus, you don’t want to sound desperate, right?

9. Focus on shared experiences: Try to find the similarities that both of you share and talk to him about them. Share your likes and dislikes and emphasise on the stuff you have in common. Make him realise that both of you are so much alike (and of course, made for each other). He’s bound to feel good about you.

10. Be indifferent: You don’t need to be Miss Goodie Two Shoes every time and pay attention to everything he is saying. Be a little indifferent too at times and show him that you have a life apart from him. Make plans with friends and tell him about them. Don’t be ever ready to attend his calls or reply to his texts. Imagine him getting all impatient, waiting for your reply and smile.

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Source:  iDiva