LADIES WATCH OUT!!!! Characteristics of Abusive Men

It all seems perfect when the relationship starts. However, it is only when both parties have gotten deep in the relationship she starts to realize that she is in abusive relationship. Personally I always tell women that they see the signs before they get married. However, some other people say it’s quite difficult reading the signs. Ladies please be careful and read these traits.

Characteristics of Abusive Men

1.      He is so crazy about you he wants to settle down with you as soon as you meet.

2.      He is really, weirdly jealous. (He should be uncomfortable if you go away for the weekend with your ex-boyfriend, but if he accuses you of flirting with every guy you encounter like, the waiter, the cashier, a gay buddy, my dear it's a red flag.)

3.      Calls and text so much, it sometimes makes you angry.

4.      Doesn't think your friends and family value you enough, or even at all.

Also watch out if:

1.      You are always tired because he keeps you up at night.

2.      You’re always explaining to people “I can’t go.”

3.      Your anxiety soars if you’re just a few minutes late -- you know how upset he’ll be.

4.      Things are always your fault.

5.      You get a lot of apology emails or make-up gifts from him.

6.      You find you don’t do anything without him, or without him approving of it.

Run if:

·         !! You find out he had a violent relationship with a former girlfriend.

·         !! He stalks you -- at work and online.

·         !! He beats up a teammate or has a punch-out in a bar.

·         !! He’s ever been cruel to animals.

·         !!! He is ever physically violent to you.

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And if you’re worried about a friend? She might be in trouble if:

1.      She starts saying she can’t come to things you invite her to (because she has to be with her boyfriend).

2.      When you’re with her, she’s always on-edge about returning his messages immediately or being late to meet him.

3.      She has bruises or scratches she can’t explain or tells you they were caused by an accident.

4.      She stops doing things she loved before meeting the guy -- hobbies, shopping, school, even working.

5.      You just feel like you’re losing her.

Have you or a friend ever witnessed any of these warning signs?

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