By: Darren Rose
If you
are tired of dating guys who simply won’t commit for the long term, but it
seems to take them forever to come clean and admit it, then it’s time for you
to take action! No doubt you’re tired of the same patterns repeating themselves
over and over again. But don’t feel sorry for yourself, it’s time to be
proactive. Disappointments and time wasters should no longer be a part of your
dating life, at least not for extended periods of time. Here are a few early
warning signs that your guy might have commitment issues.
Sign #1:
He has a busy life. He has a 9 to 5 job but often works late; he is busy during the weekends
or has to travel a lot; he has a hobby that is consuming most of his spare
time, maybe kids from a previous relationship he needs to spend quality time
with regularly; you always see him running around and he rarely manages to go
out on a date with you without having to answer his phone or send emails every
5 minutes.
No matter
how demanding his schedule and no matter how hectic his life might be, there’s
no excuse for him not make more time for you. With men like this the odds are
high of him one day telling you he simply does not have time for a girlfriend
or fiancé in his life. So pay close attention to this essential detail. A guy
who doesn’t start prioritizing you or at least try to find more time for you is
not one who is planning on making a commitment any time soon. If you are
involved in a steady relationship for a while now, and you are still not your
man’s priority, it might be time to move on, or at the least discuss your
concerns with him.
Sign #2:
He’s lying… And you know it… Your sixth sense is telling you that the
inconsistent stories he has been telling you has more to do with his lying and
deceiving rather than his busy schedule and hectic lifestyle. Take some time
and analyze him; listen to his excuses, compare and contrast the details – are
things sounding more unbelievable from one story to the next? If he is having a
hard time being truthful then he is not ready for a serious, committed
relationship… And probably never will be…
Sign #3:
He never backs up his promises. No matter how small and insignificant they might be
make no doubt these are signs he will do the same concerning your moving in
together, getting engaged, getting married, having children. If he makes plans
but instead of following through he procrastinates and makes excuses, you might
be dealing with a guy that fears commitment.
Sign #4:
He recently broke up with his girlfriend. A guy that just broke up with his
girlfriend is usually on the rebound and simply looking for fun, and possibly a
distraction from his broken heart. Your relationship with him could blossom
into something more. But at this point he’s likely not looking for commitment.
I’m not saying he doesn’t like you. He might really be into you. But if he is
not emotionally ready to commit it’s not going to happen. Proceed with caution.
Sign #5:
He is too into you! He makes everything about you sound so wonderful and perfect that you
would think he is ready to marry you a week after you’ve met. This guy is
probably a player. He likes to hunt down women and you are likely just another
one of his prey. When a man sounds too good to be true, he usually is.
You might
notice one or several of these signs in your current relationship. Use your
intuition, if you are sure he won’t commit to you then maybe it’s time to move
on before you get too attached to a man that isn’t attached to you.
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