By : Ada
OHHHHH NOOOO NOT AGAIN!!!! I really don’t understand why
Tunde still calls me; In short I am not picking his call this time. Like
seriously who is this babe deceiving, Tunde has been calling my colleague Bola
for quite some time now and I know she still picks his calls. They always stay
so long on the phone and I honestly don’t know what they keep discussing about on the
phone. At times I get so shocked when she tells me that she is in love with her
current boyfriend ‘Wale’. Like seriously what is happening in this babes
head?
Does she really want me to respond to her foolish question?
Abeg I have a presentation tomorrow and I really need to finish it; besides I
have other issues of my own. My rent is almost due and I just can’t imagine how
I will give that my nonsense landlord that huge sum of money. Just last month
we told the man to fix the roof in the house but he just refused; I had to pay
a carpenter with my own money, I am honestly not just in the mood right now.
Ada!! Ada!! Am I not talking to you? As I gently looked at
her, I was too angry to even speak; Bola were you even talking to me? I was
honestly lost in thought; you know I have lots of issues in my life right now.
Ada I told you that Tunde still call me and I think he misses me. He asked me
out for lunch last week but I could not refuse the offer. You know him and I
have told you about him, he is my ex; oh yes I remember. So what about him? He
still calls me. Babe abeg leave that thing jare. Guys will always be guys!!!
Every girl looks for signs to see if her ex boyfriend miss
her and still love her and you surely still love your ex boyfriend. Ada
that is not true. Ok worry no more; here are some tips for you to check and to
see if you can still fix that broken relationship in order for you to
have the answer from the universal question "Does my ex boyfriend miss
me?"
1. When the guy still contacts the girl
If your ex boyfriend still calls or text you, that is the first sign he misses you and still loves you. This is extremely accurate especially if your phone conversation is initiated by him. This is also a sign that he wants to get you back. If this is the case, this is your chance to be back in his arm. Grab this opportunity for a better love story.
2. When the guy wants to see the girl
If your ex-boyfriend is making some excuses just to see you, that is another sign he misses you and wants to win you back. Excuses may be too obvious such as dropping by to get some of his things, visiting the places you frequently went to, and stopping by at your work place. This is an obvious sign.
If you still love him, show it to him. Don't complicate the things that are already complicated between the two of you.
3. When the guy asks some personal questions from the girl
If your ex boyfriend is still calling you or texting you on a daily basis, that means he misses you. But if your ex boyfriend is asking you some questions such as if you are seeing someone new or dating other boys, that means he is jealous with the thought that you are looking for someone else and you are moving on. He wants you back.
Other personal questions he might ask you are if you have already eaten your lunch or dinner, whom you are with, and what you are doing as of the moment. If you answer these questions from him, you have already answered the question "Does my ex boyfriend miss me?"
Bola you need to detach yourself from him. If you are in friendly terms, talk to him now and then and let him feel that you are there for him. But, take note that once boys brake up with their girls, and they have open communication, boys will be having two thoughts and will be doubtful on what your relationship status is. The first is to move on completely or try again to fix your relationship.
In this scenario, boys have the advantage. They will control the situation. What you need to do is to be the one who will control the situation. Don't tell him about your real feelings. Don't show him that you are still in love with him, and you're dying to be back in his arms.
Let him miss you and show him that there are other men who would want to be with you. This will surely perk him up and do what he needs to do if he is still into you.
1. When the guy still contacts the girl
If your ex boyfriend still calls or text you, that is the first sign he misses you and still loves you. This is extremely accurate especially if your phone conversation is initiated by him. This is also a sign that he wants to get you back. If this is the case, this is your chance to be back in his arm. Grab this opportunity for a better love story.
2. When the guy wants to see the girl
If your ex-boyfriend is making some excuses just to see you, that is another sign he misses you and wants to win you back. Excuses may be too obvious such as dropping by to get some of his things, visiting the places you frequently went to, and stopping by at your work place. This is an obvious sign.
If you still love him, show it to him. Don't complicate the things that are already complicated between the two of you.
3. When the guy asks some personal questions from the girl
If your ex boyfriend is still calling you or texting you on a daily basis, that means he misses you. But if your ex boyfriend is asking you some questions such as if you are seeing someone new or dating other boys, that means he is jealous with the thought that you are looking for someone else and you are moving on. He wants you back.
Other personal questions he might ask you are if you have already eaten your lunch or dinner, whom you are with, and what you are doing as of the moment. If you answer these questions from him, you have already answered the question "Does my ex boyfriend miss me?"
Bola you need to detach yourself from him. If you are in friendly terms, talk to him now and then and let him feel that you are there for him. But, take note that once boys brake up with their girls, and they have open communication, boys will be having two thoughts and will be doubtful on what your relationship status is. The first is to move on completely or try again to fix your relationship.
In this scenario, boys have the advantage. They will control the situation. What you need to do is to be the one who will control the situation. Don't tell him about your real feelings. Don't show him that you are still in love with him, and you're dying to be back in his arms.
Let him miss you and show him that there are other men who would want to be with you. This will surely perk him up and do what he needs to do if he is still into you.
So Bola can I get back to work now? Ada you always feel like
you know so much about relationships. I never said I did, you just asked me a
question and I gave you very simply answers.
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